Be The Kind Of Parent
You Want To Be
1
Trust
Create a relationship with your children based on trust, connection and collaboration
2
Harmony
Experience peace, harmony and mutual understanding with your children
3
Healing
Heal the wounds you experienced as a child, so your children don’t have to
No parent starts off knowing what to do...
And without conscious effort, our parenting methods can create conflict instead of connection. The authoritarian way most of us have been taught to parent creates conflict and frustration, endless power struggles and leaves us with broken and distant relationships with our children.
When we parent our children without working through our own history, we are destined to repeat painful patterns we ourselves experienced as children, no matter how badly we want it to be different. But I have good news:
It’s Never Too Late to Turn Things Around!
No matter what your relationship with your child(ren) looks like right now, there is hope. Depending on where things are, it can be hard to believe there is truly another way. But I promise you there is.
No parent starts off knowing what to do. We create plans, try to be the people we want to be and watch as our idealistic imaginings get run over by the reality of daily life and the immense pressures of caring for our kids.
Hello, I'm Kaiya Hatcher...
I became a parent coach after working as an educator for over a decade. During that time I saw countless parents who were burned out, overwhelmed and in need of more support. I also noticed how frequently my nervous system became activated into fight or flight mode, both in the classroom with my students as well as with my own family.
Once I became a parent coach and learned there was another way of relating within my closest relationships- one where I could find safety and regulation in my body no matter what the external conditions looked like; one based on connection and healthy communication- I knew I wanted to bring these tools and resources to parents so they can have the support they so desperately need.
I believe all children deserve to be guided and loved by the best version each of us have to offer them, as parents, teachers, and caregivers of all kinds.
I know that you want to be a loving, peaceful parent that has a meaningful connected relationship with your children. In order to do that you need to build security within yourself so that you can find a way to reimagine and reestablish a different kind of relationship with your kids.
The traditional ‘POWER-OVER’ model of parenting isn’t working
Which makes you feel like you’re going to spend the rest of your life struggling with your children and continue to feel like you’re just not doing a good job as a parent.
I believe that the real issue is that we’re not taught how to be the kind of parents most of us long to be, we have not seen it modeled. And so we end up slipping into the behaviors that were ingrained in us from our own childhoods, and passing on painful patterns of conflict and disconnection.
I understand how hard it is to ask for help as a parent. Which is why when you contact me, you will be met with understanding, a non-judgemental openness and a supportive, personalized, effective plan that I will personally guide you through every step of the way.
How It Works:
When you book a call with me, we’ll sit down together and talk so I can get a sense of what’s going on for you and your family and where I can offer support.
I’ll explain my approach and the options we have for working together. You can ask any questions you have and see what type of support would be the best fit for your life and schedule.
If it feels right to you, we can book our first session and get started. If it’s not a good fit, I will do my best to offer alternative resources or suggestions for support, wherever possible. There’s no pressure of any kind, simply an opportunity to see if we are a good fit to work together.
Let's Talk!
Set up a time for us to meet, so that you can stop blaming yourself, and instead take the first step towards becoming the kind of parent you know you can be.
Ready to shift your experience of parenting to peace, harmony and connection?
